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Wednesday, May 29, 2013

Spiritual Reading: Read-Aloud Books We've Begun (May 28, 2013)


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One Short Chapter a Day



1.  You are My Beloved: Meditations on God's Steadfast Love by Mitch Finley


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2.  The First Christians:  The Acts of the Apostles for Children by Marigold Hunt



3.  101 Inspirational Stories of the Power of Prayer by Sister Patricia Proctor

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4.  How to Handle Worry:  A Catholic Approach by Marshall J. Cook

5.  Jesus and I: Conversations between Jesus and Any Child Who Wants to Talk to Him by Jean Plaquevent


Sunday, May 5, 2013

Learning and Loving - Sunday, May 5, 2013


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1.  Time for God:  Sunday Mass Homily 

Fr. Schierer shared this beautiful story about a Roman soldier, who had a pregnant wife.  Unfortunately, he had to go with the Roman army to a distant land.  At that time, Christianity was still outlawed.  But several Christian women came to help the Roman wife till she gave birth to their baby boy.  The wife was so moved by the kindness of the Christian women, that she asked that she and her baby be baptized.

In the meantime, the husband had also encountered Christians in his travels with the army.  He was amazed at their courage and peace in the face of persecution, and he asked them what was the source of their strength.

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The Christians shared their faith with him, but somehow he was not able to be baptized.  When he came home to his wife, he was overjoyed to see her and their baby son.  The wife was happy that her husband was back home, but nervous about telling him that they were Christians.  

When she showed their baby son to him, she summoned up the courage to tell him that he was baptized a Christian and so was she.  Upon hearing these words, the husband knelt before their baby and told her what he had learned from the Christians he had met, that their baby was a temple of the Holy Spirit, containing the one, true God.  

The wife rejoiced and the husband became Christian, too.

What a beautiful story!

2.  Play Session with Sled (40 minutes)

~ first with his Bionicles for 15 minutes in his room, then with his army soldiers and war-torn buildings that he and Muddee made out of boxes (a few years ago) for the rest of the time in the basement.

~ Summary of Sled's story:  the American soldiers had occupied the buildings in a town, but the British and German soldiers invaded the town and took over the buildings.  There were a lot of casualties on all sides.

3. Sports:  Track Practice (Muddee with NOVA AC)

~ Robs brought Muddee to track practice this afternoon.  They both got a good work-out.

4.  Time for our Marriage

~ Robs and I read John Gottman's Book, "The Relationship Cure," for 1/2 hour.
~ Good marriage tune-up!

5.  Family Time

a)  Robs and the boys played a short game of Badminton in the yard.

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b)  We all played the board game, Roundabout, for the first time, after dinner.  It's not the best game, but Sled won, followed by Robs.


Sunday, March 10, 2013

Quotes: Self-Compassion


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Friday, November 9, 2012

Consoling Thoughts for Those Disappointed by Obama Re-election # 2


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From Franciscan University Catechetics Professor, Bob Rice:


Well, about 48% of the country is unhappy right now. Consider me one of them.

Like many, I’ve been invested in this election. Read numerous stories and blogs on the Internet. Followed the debates. Talked about it a lot. Prayed. Voted. And yet the same guy who was elected President four years ago is the same guy who got voted in today. Once again he’s talking about “hope” in front of a cheering Chicago audience. After the speech they played Bruce Springsteen’s “We Take Care Of Our Own.”

I would have rather had an election result that ended with Taylor Swift’s “We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together.”

I’m not the only one who prayed and fasted for this day. At Church every Sunday (and daily), we’ve been praying or our country and for the election. Though the prayers never specifically said, “We pray Mitt Romney wins,” that seemed like an easy connection to make. We prayed for a president that respects the dignity of the unborn.  We prayed for a president that respects religious freedom.

And yet we now have a president who seems to not care about either of those two important issues. He is more concerned with the rights of same sex couples to be married than the rights of unborn children to live. He is more concerned with the “rights” to free contraceptives than the rights of religious freedom.

So… were our prayers unanswered?  Our novenas wasted?  On the surface, it seems to be that way.

But God isn’t done yet. He just rarely answers prayers the way we think He will.
God isn’t into democracy. Jesus said, “Follow me,” not, “vote for me.” Though we might feel that our prayers for the election weren’t heard, God is bigger than an election. He’s about saving souls and changing hearts.

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Abortions in this country are down. Why? Because abortion centers are closing due to movements such as “40 Days for Life.” This is the most pro-life generation the country has ever seen. Hearts are changing. That’s the work of God, not man. Man can create a law to make something “legal” or “illegal.” But only God makes things “right” or “wrong.” The law is external, the Spirit is internal. God is more concerned about the heart.

Same-sex marriage? Yes, it’s disappointing that same sex marriage won a popular vote in Maine and Maryland. Proponents say this is the beginning of a national trend (as if the 30 previous states who voted against same sex marriage don’t matter.) That may be true. But I think we need to do better in talking about what marriage really is. We’ve been hoping for a vote to “protect marriage,” but perhaps we’ve been too focused in “out-voting” the issue than explaining it. Now we have to be more articulate. I can’t see that as a bad thing.

Religious freedom? That battle is far from over. More lawsuits have been leveled toward the Federal Government on this matter than any other in American history, and most of lower court results have been respecting religious rights. Obama’s re-election doesn’t make the HHS mandate a slam dunk, though that would have been nice—just as it would have been a non-issue if Obamacare was flipped by the Supreme Court. But it seems we’re just not going to get any short cuts on this: the issue of religious freedom will need to be directly addressed by the Supreme Court. And that could be a great thing.

One “positive” thing you can say about Obama is that he’s done more to unite the Catholic Church in America than anyone in the past 50 years. He got every Catholic bishop to stand against him. He also did a lot to unite the Christian Church — remember Mike Huckabee saying, “Today, I’m Catholic!” Heck, he even got evangelical Christians to back a Mormon for president.

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Mitt Romney  [Source]

If we had woken up this morning with the headline, “Romney is the President,” we might have gone back to sleep feeling secure in one nation under God. We could be thankful that this HHS nonsense is over and we can go back to our lives. We could be hopeful that abortions would be reduced thanks to government intervention. That’s how I hoped to start the day.

But God does not want us asleep. He wants us awake. He wants us to do the same thing we’ve been doing: pray, work, and fast for our country.

If we thought we could wake up and feel safe about these issues because Romney got elected then we’d be as foolish as those on the other side of these issues who think Obama is the “savior.” We can’t depend on the government for our spiritual “welfare.” We’ve got to go out and proclaim God’s truth with our lips and share His love from our hearts.

I’m bummed that Obama won. I know a lot of people who worked really hard during this election and I can’t imagine how devastated they feel: any time you spend work on a “failed” effort it’s always heart-breaking.

But I still have hope, and not the “hope” that Obama talked about to a cheering crowd this morning. His “hope” was optimism based on the human spirit; our hope is rooted in Jesus Christ and in His saving power. The hope Obama offered four years ago hasn’t materialized, but our hope in Christ is “an anchor for the soul, firm and secure” (Heb 6:19.)

The re-election of Barack Obama means that Christians in the United States have to stay united and actively proclaim the truth of the Gospel if we are to protect the values we believe were given to us from God. It means we have to pray more, work harder, and be more active in sharing our faith. If we do that, it would be a more important “result” than any political office we could ever vote for.

I’ll end with what we prayed in Mass this morning: ”The Lord is my light and my salvation, whom shall I fear? The Lord is my life’s refuge; of whom should I be afraid?” (Psalm 27:1)


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Capturing the context of contentment in everyday life.

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Beautiful flower hubby photographed at Ida Lee Park, where Muddee's NOVA AC Invitational Cross Country Meet was held on Saturday, October 27, 2012.


Ida Lee Park in the Fall

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Muddee is awarded a medal for finishing in the Top 10 at
the NOVA AC Invitational Cross Country Meet on October 27, 2012.


The Winners!

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Not sure why hubby took a picture of his feet, but I thought it fit the bill for this portion of the post.  =)   (September 8, 2012)

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The Potomac River the day after Hurricane Sandy (October 30, 2012)


By the Potomac River the Day after Hurricane Sandy.


The park walkways were strewn with leaves from trees shaken by Sandy's strong winds.


The Potomac River after Hurricane Sandy (October 30, 2012).

Thank you, Lord, for sparing us from the brunt of the storm!

Visit Like Mother, Like Daughter for more pictures of contentment.


Wednesday, November 7, 2012

Consoling Thoughts for Those Disappointed by Obama Re-election # 1


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From Live Action President, Lila Rose:

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“Our work to defend the lives of the most vulnerable and to promote human dignity is not dependent on an election.  This is a fight for each person, one person at a time. We will only work harder, hope and trust more, and ask God to make our lives a reflection of His love which never disappoints.” [Source]

From Marjorie Dannenfelser, the President of the Susan B. Anthony List:

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“Let me make one thing clear: the pro-life cause did not lose tonight, Mitt Romney did.  It is with a heavy heart that I say that he ran a campaign purely on economic issues – and time and time again did not go on offense on our issue.  Polling this cycle and historical voting trends show that the pro-life issue isn’t only the right thing to do, but it is the winning thing to do politically. I’m afraid Mitt Romney and his team failed to recognize this. We will need to work on this, too.” [Source]

From Tom Crowe of Catholic Vote.org:

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... the way forward will not be in our own machinations but it will be in embracing the substance of the Church and bringing her to the world and the world to her. We make a difference when we affect hearts, which move minds, and the heart is moved when the Holy Spirit is allowed to move in the heart.

We are children of God before we are citizens of any nation or subjects of any sovereign. We fight the good fight in the politics of the world to bring about the good and true in the world precisely because we are first children of God, and we have been called to affect the good in the world, so that more of us might end up in heaven with God in eternity.

Let us forge ahead with full hope in the promise of God’s love, anchored in God’s Church, affecting the world for the good and the true.

In the end, God has already won anyhow.   [Source]


From Susan Michelle Tyrrell in LifeSite News:

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Never have we needed to pray as we do in this critical hour. No man is our answer apart from Jesus, and He wasn’t the least bit surprised. Before the foundation of the world, He knew we’d re-elect President Obama tonight.  We absolutely cannot forget the word of the Lord in Romans which says:
13 Let every soul be subject to the governing authorities. For there is no authority except from God, and the authorities that exist are appointed by God. Therefore whoever resists the authority resists the ordinance of God, and those who resist will bring judgment on themselves.For rulers are not a terror to good works, but to evil. Do you want to be unafraid of the authority? Do what is good, and you will have praise from the same.
Did you catch that?  Rulers are not a terror to good works.  As we do the will of the Lord, no man, pro-abortion or not, should be a Christian’s terror. Jesus wants abortion to end. We have the Man of all men on our side. We cannot be in the wrong when we do right, but we can be wrong even in being right if we lash out and live from anger. As you take in the news tonight, please don’t forget the mandate to pray, not only to end abortion but for the rulers of this land, whether we wanted them to be elected or not—because that’s actually irrelevant to our prayers.
Therefore I exhort first of all that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and giving of thanks be made for all men,for kings and all who are in authority, that we may lead a quiet and peaceable life in all godliness and reverence. I Tim. 2:1-2
We’ll have more response for you Wednesday, but we want to encourage you and remind you of the truth and hope that has not left. The president may not be on our side with LIFE, but the true King of the earth is. What we must do now is pray for our president, even as we pray for abortion to end. We must remember that being a Christian means we are to display Christ-like behavior. This is the time to respond in love and prayer. Its’ a time to stand for truth in love. This will change a culture far more than an election.

Many of us go to bed disappointed tonight. But it’s time to remember the hope that does not disappoint (Romans 5). Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today and forever, and His desire for LIFE has never changed.

Take a day, feel sad about the loss, cry a bit, and then get up and stand on your knees. We have a battle to fight. And every day that we don’t, close to 4000 babies will suffer. This isn’t time to get fruitlessly angry but to channel that anger to the hope we have in Jesus.  [Source]




Tuesday, October 9, 2012

St. Hilarion the Great - Feast Day: October 21


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<p align=left> <B><I>Oct. 21, - Commemoration of our Venerable Father Hilarion

Saint Hilarion the Great
(291 - 371 AD)

Feast Day: October 21

On October 21st, we remember a saint who began life possessing many of the delights the world can offer, and willingly gave them all up. He is Saint Hilarion, who became one of the foremost ascetics of Palestine.

Hilarion was born at Tabatha, south of Gaza in Palestine. He was the son of Pagan parents, who did not believe in God.  But he had a happy and relatively carefree childhood. He read and played music, enjoyed sports and games, and idled away hours with his friends. There was little to suggest that he would deny himself the pleasures of life as he grew up.

Hilarion's parents wanted to give him a good education along with his other advantages. When he was a teenager, they sent him to Alexandria in Egypt -- a sophisticated city known for its libraries, schools, and excellent teachers -- to study.  It was then, as a student, that his life changed forever, and in ways his parents couldn't have anticipated.

Alexandria offered many forms of entertainment. A person could go to the theater, attend the circus, or shout with the crowds at violent, bloody contests in the arena. But Hilarion was unimpressed and even repelled by these.

He found himself drawn instead to the assemblies of Christians, who met often to worship. These people became his friends and his guides in the spiritual life.

There at the age of 15, he was baptized.  His conversion started him out on a glorious journey leading him closer to God.

Like everyone in Alexandria, Hilarion had heard about the famous monk, who made his home in the forbidding Egyptian desert and lived a wonderfully simple, prayerful life there.

After listening to an account of the angelic life of St. Anthony the Great (January 17), Egypt's illustrious hermit, Hilarion went to visit him in the desert, desiring to study with him and learn what is pleasing to God.  Upon meeting that truly great man, the Father of monks, Saint Hilarion determined to devote himself also to the ascetical life.

The visit changed young Hilarion's life forever.  He stayed with Anthony for two months, and carefully observed everything the older man did — his constant prayer, his extremely austere diet, the gentle way he dealt with other people while being so strict in his own habits.  Hilarion decided to begin a life modeled on Anthony's.

Many people came to St. Anthony for help.  Soon, it was not quiet enough there for Hilarion.  He could not find the peace he was looking for.  He wanted to be alone to serve Jesus, whom he had just come to love.  So he returned to his native land, Palestine.

When he did so, he found that his parents had died. He quickly settled his affairs by distributing his family's inheritance to the poor.  Afterwards, he set out into the desert surrounding the city of Maium to live alone as a hermit.  Though only fifteen years old (306), he built a little hut, scarcely large enough to accommodate himself, and slept on the bare ground.

Saint Jerome, who wrote an account of his life, described his efforts:

"With no other covering for his limbs but a shirt of sackcloth, and a cloak of skins which the blessed Anthony had given him when he set out, and a blanket of the coarsest sort, he found pleasure in the vast and terrible wilderness with the sea on one side and the marshland on the other."

Most of Hilarion's time was spent in reading and in meditating upon Holy Scripture.  He fasted during the day and had a small meal after sunset made up of a few figs and a little soup from herbs.  This sufficed for his nourishment, but he never took it before the setting of the sun.

He supported himself by weaving baskets, but spent the rest of his time in prayer.  Because of his mortifications and humility, he triumphed over fierce assaults by the evil one, for in the desert, Hilarion faced many temptations.  At times, he felt that God did not hear his prayers at all. But he did not let these temptations stop him from praying even harder.

The monk struggled intensely with impure, lustful thoughts, vexations of the mind and the burning temptations and passions of his flesh.  But he defeated them with heavy labor, fasting and fervent prayer. The devil sought to frighten the saint with phantoms and apparitions.

During prayer, St. Hilarion heard children crying, women wailing, the roaring of lions and other wild beasts. The monk perceived that it was the demons causing these terrors in order to drive him away from the wilderness. He overcame his fear with the help of fervent prayer.

Once, robbers fell upon St. Hilarion, and he persuaded them to forsake their life of crime through the power of his words.

After twenty years in the desert, the holy man worked his first miracle. Soon, all of Palestine learned about the holy ascetic. Many people began coming to his hut to beg his help.  He became a healer, a counselor, and a worker of miracles. 

The Lord granted to St. Hilarion the power to cast out unclean spirits. With this gift of grace, he loosed the bonds of many of the afflicted. 

Such was the grace that he received from God that he could tell by the smell of someone's body or clothing which passion afflicted his soul.  The sick came for healing, and the monk cured them free of charge, saying that the grace of God is not for sale (MT 10:8). 

Several men asked him to let them stay with him to learn from him how to pray and do penance. They came to St. Hilarion, wanting to save their soul under his guidance. In his great love for God and people, the saint invited them to stay. 

With the blessing of St. Hilarion, monasteries began to spring up throughout Palestine. Going from one monastery to another, he instituted a strict ascetic manner of life.

Because of the miracles he worked, he found himself compelled by his growing renown to leave Gaza, to escape from the throngs of people coming to ask his prayers.

He began to travel, when he was sixty-five.  He moved frequently so as not to attract adoring followers.  He passed through Egypt and Libya, and sailed to Sicily in search of peace and quiet.

When he visited Egypt, he came again with longing to the place where Saint Anthony had lived.  But he was not able to remain in any one place for long, since despite all his attempts to conceal himself, the light of the grace that was in him could not be hid.  The fame of his miracles of mercy always brought crowds of visitors. (He had two thousand followers.)

A few years before his death, Hilarion finally found a lonely cave in Cyprus and at last felt that he was truly alone with God.  There, the ascetic lived in a solitary place until the Lord summoned him to Himself.  He was eighty years old when he died.

The day of St. Hilarion's death is given as October 21, 371.  His grave is on the island of Cyprus.  St. Jerome wrote the life of the holy hermit twenty years after his death in 390 AD at Bethlehem.


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With the streams of your tears, you have made the barren desert fertile. Through sighs of sorrow from deep within you, your labors have borne fruit a hundred-fold. By your miracles, you have become a light, shining upon the world.  O St. Hilarion, pray to Christ our God, to save our souls.

As we gather on this day, we sing your praise and acclaim, you as a never-setting light of the bright spiritual Daystar.  Those whom ignorance benighted, you illumined with your beams; and you raised to the divine heights, O St. Hilarion, all who cry out:  Height of ascetics, Rejoice!  [Source]

St. Hilarion, pray for us, now and at the hour of our death.  Amen.



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